Sexual Choices…for Grown Ass People!

Sexual Choices…for Grown Ass People!

Sexual Choices…for Grown Ass People!

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The last couple of weeks has been such a tremendous fuss around a “traditional family” referendum.

I’ve never seen so many straight men defending gay people’s rights, and so many straight women condemning sexual choices.

After talking to a bunch of ladies and gents about the pros and cons, and listening very carefully to what they had to say, here comes my conclusion!

I can understand the fact that us women, at a global level, surpass with flying colours the number of men, that leaving us a big issue of competition as per penis.

I can also understand the situation, hilarious nevertheless, that gay men target the same thing you are chasing and think that is rightfully yours.

It is logical that the demand per penis has reached unbelievable values, so women are going to extreme lengths to ensure they get one steady and ready for their vision of “perfect life”.

You can by now see why so many women have nothing against lesbians, but rather encourage them to act out and come out of the closet, because that translates in more options, less competition.

I can also see the frustration in some women that apart from having to suffer rejection in favour of some other woman, now they have to struggle to comprehend the notion of “you’re not my type, but we can be friends since we have so much in common”!

Dear ladies, how on earth gay men became the worst thing it can possibly happen to you?

You know what is worse than your indignation? Your inability to own your sexual power. Your whole perception on sexual experience screams out loud dysfunction, dysfunction, dysfunction! The reason you have to struggle is because you are so judgemental towards yourself, your needs, your cravings, your pleasure, that not only you scare away the available men, but you actually demand no one should ever have sex if you don’t!

How selfish is that? On one hand you consider men to be the root cause of your problems regarding sexuality, feminity, and on the other hand violently demand that your needs are met!

I actually heard one say she’d rather accept her husband having affairs as long as he comes back to her. If he’d go to the other team that would mean many women deprived for the pleasure of “owning” a man.

I have to thank gay men for pushing women’s hand into accepting the idea of a mistress. I do, really, but, that’s not the answer or solution to sexual dysfunction and twisted perception on how relationships should look like!

The deeper problem is we have all depersonalised men and have attached them to a penis, emphasis on the holy grail of humanity. It is a nonsense to carry out your battles from a highly fucked up perspective.

And on the other side there are men, filled up with insecurities, who will only tolerate lesbians cause it’s erotic, but won’t accept gay men, probably of their own vulnerability, being just afraid like you’re afraid of a virus. I highly doubt these men actually like women, but rather they cling to them, many of them, to validate their manly hood.

So, as I come to understand, lesbians are highly acceptable not only because they are cool, but because they are “safe”. Many of us where raised by mothers and grandmothers without a man around, so our traditional family is widely accepted to be formed by women.

The other understanding I’m getting is that a penis is on one hand the holy grail which ensures continuity of traditional, and on the other hand the source of humankind problems.

Do you see how fucked up is that?

From my point of view the only choice I see is clearing up sexual energy, beliefs and patterns associated with sexuality, regardless where they come from.

I don’t believe in sin anymore. I just believe in experience. Guilt is the first means to manipulate a person, by constantly changing the rules of the game, making him or her unworthy of anything good, feeding of they power.

We are full of algorithms which keep us in the loop of powerlessness, illusion, ignorance, violence and abuse. It is up to each and everyone of us to break loose from that and stop trying to push down those who chose to act free. Freedom comes with personal responsibility and choices.

If someone chooses to do things differently, it doesn’t mean it is wrong or condemnable. It is just that, a simple choice of owning who you feel you are.

Owning up also means understanding the fact you need to clear out dysfunction and programming and ensure your freedom for yourself and others.

If you truly have a healthy perception on sexuality, you’ll find yourself in a place of infinite options, opened up to experience without guilt or shame.

What are we really afraid of is our own natural instincts. It is so freeing to know you are the one deciding what you experience. And that is perfection at its best!

Just let go of a mythical traditional way, and create anything that suits you and makes you happy and full of passion. And allow others to do the same.

We are here to break free, not to create more boundaries and separation.

And as for sexual choice… For crying out loud, decide what you love, decide to love actually and leave competition where it belongs, in organised contests.

Don’t loose anymore time by opposing and get out there and do whatever builds up passion and joy inside you!


 


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