You Can’t Give A Blowjob In 7 Steps

You Can’t Give A Blowjob In 7 Steps

You Can’t Give A Blowjob In 7 Steps

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That would be my answer to everyone who is keen on living their lives in steps, bullet points, procedures of all sorts. That was actually the line I gave a colleague of mine when things got heated up about procedures in therapy. Nowadays we can see allover recipes of success, how to guides that guarantee the money, the love, the attention, the power, the freedom. I know some might get offended, but honestly I couldn’t care less. You can’t live your life in steps determined by a generic scheme. What the fuck would happen if you forget a step? Imagine this sex therapy session: the therapist explains the client/ couple how to give a mind-blowing oral. And at the end of the session he/she hands over a list of steps on how to achieve that. How would that work? Would they record the therapist’s voice for a guided 7 steps blowjob meditation in which they could hear “and one, and two, and three..keep your pace honey, and four, and five…”?!? Firstly is killing the very essence of energy movement, and that is flowing freely, and that’s why we call it “to be in the flow”. Secondly I would never want to hear someone else’s voice in bed, other than my partner’s. I can admit operating heavy machinery require steps learning, but is this the case? You can’t conduct passion by imposing rules and steps. You can’t dictate love to follow steps, you can’t function by counting everything from 1 to 7. The whole purpose of evolution, spirituality, is freedom from patterns, from everything that blocks your personal rythm, personal expression, is about redefining every energy, concept, action in accordance to your uniqueness. Forget the “how to” guides. Forget bullet points on your path of discovery. They might help you fix a sink, but not yourself or your lives. Every one of us is unique. The very construct of our blueprint is so unique that the only way to get something work for you specifically, is to access the very core of yourself. Steps and generalized patterns won’t get the results you need. When I talk about sexuality, passion, eroticism, I talk about feeling those from the core of your groin, to every fucking cell of your body, and express them in whatever way feels natural to you. Learning how to speak sex fluently means practice, exploring, playing, but never ever calculated actions. Wouldn’t you rather loose all the nonsense and take those actions that suit you and feel natural to you? And if there is something new to learn, wouldn’t you want that to integrate according to your own vibration so everything can flow, like the water through a mountain? I’m petrified every time I hear someone needing procedures, especially when it comes to sexuality. And then I realise why sex has become an act of performing, procedural, goal oriented, and not a moment of expressing feelings, passion, pleasure, excitement. How about we switch from all the performing acts to actually feeling? How about we create intimacy by learning to be natural, by learning how to build up arousal without having Dr X counting in our years? And, in case you expected a recipe on how to give the most amazing blowjob, I always say that if life gives you the opportunity, grab it with both of your hands and play with it with such joy and excitement, like it is the best gift you’ve ever received!

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